He’s got a woman in every port (Picture: Getty/Metro.co.uk)

Often it takes an epiphany to make you realize you’re kidding yourself about one bad relationship.


In this week’s Sex Column we hear from a woman blinded by love for her boyfriend, a still married father of two.


But it’s only since she finds out he also has multiple mistresses – one in each city he travels to for work – that she starts to feel like she’s being played.


Read the advice, but don’t forget to check out before you go last week’s columnof a man whose girlfriend is playing with a rich older man.


The problem…


I am madly in love with my boyfriend and find it difficult to accept that he only uses my house as a B&B with sex involved.


I met him online last year and after a few disastrous relationships I really thought I had found my perfect partner. He has always been honest about his marriage, but has promised to leave his wife once his children are old enough (they are currently 10 and 13).


What I wasn’t counting on, however, is the fact that he seems to have other girlfriends in different parts of the country. I only found out when someone reached out to me on social media and told me she wasn’t alone.


He has a good job that takes him all over Britain. He has a company car, wears nice clothes, has a great body and is very sexy. Unfortunately, he knows.




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Our sex life is out of this world, and he constantly tells me he loves me – not just in the throes of passion. I know he doesn’t have with his wife what he has with me.


I can accept his marriage situation for now, but having other girlfriends really bothers me. When I confronted him about it, he said he never promised to be exclusive, and anyway, this other girl is just a jealous ex that is unbelievable.


I confided in a friend who said she had to “be cruel to be kind” and it’s time I face the fact that this guy only saves on hotel bills when he’s on the road. If that were true, it would break my heart.


The advice…


The obvious question is: why do you want a man like that in your life? So he’s attractive, has a good job and is great in bed, but that’s certainly not all you care about. What about being appreciated and treated with respect?


This man will never be faithful to anyone, and even had the audacity to tell you that he has no intention of being exclusive (wife aside). What else do you need to know before you decide to get rid of him? What an odious creep – your friend was absolutely right when he laid out the facts.


Look, if you want to accept the way he is and just have a good time when you’re with him, then that’s a choice you can make. The alternative, which I recommend, is that you find a friend who cares about you both personally and sexually, and wants to share his life with you.


Please don’t think this guy is the best you can get. The next time he calls, tell him that neither you nor your house are available. Let him stay in a hotel!


He’s not the only attractive man in the world who is good in bed. There are others who are also faithful, so treat yourself kindly and keep searching. You deserve better.


Laura is a consultant and columnist.


I have sex and dating dilemma? For expert advice, send your concern to Laura.Collins@metro.co.uk.









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